Leading – overview
Charles Baudelaire and hospitals
Came across a lovely comment by Charles Baudelaire, sort of variation on ‘The grass is greener…’ “This life is a hospital where every patient is possessed with the desire to change beds” – seems to capture the constant worry that we could be doing better, or worse, that others are better placed than [...]
On being prisoners …
“Since we are destined to live out our lives in the prison of our minds, it is our duty to furnish it well.” Peter Ustinov
Are women better communicators than men? Some people think so…
At leadership workshops (usually quietly and to one side of the main discussion), I have been asked “Do you think women are better communicators than men?” As you may well imagine, even at the best of times, straying into this area by expressing an opinion one way or the other would be fraught with danger. However, the questions led me [...]
Is resilience enough?
In engineering terms, resilience refers to the ability of a material to recover its shape. For people it’s about ‘bouncing back’ and recovering from life’s hits which, in its own right, is quite a helpful strength but, is it enough to simply return to the status-quo? When you encounter a situation that challenges your mental [...]
Words matter
Some time ago I was invited to visit a local prison – just for the day you understand – to talk to staff about a programme they were running for violent inmates. They took me to a large, light and airy room in which they worked with those offenders who had shown an interest in modifying how they behaved. As I went into the room, I [...]
Dangerous loyalty
A diplomat famously pointed out that countries do not have friends, they have shared interests. Similarly, organisations do not have feelings; they have contracts. People have feelings. The point of the above statement is that, if we take it on board, it helps us to avoid becoming emotionally attached to an organisation we work for and [...]
Rejecting dependency
Had a shock recently when I visited a friend who used to be my boss many many years ago and now lives in a resthome. In those days I was well down the food chain and he was generally regarded as a substitute, if not replacement for, God; except that he had more power and authority. On the spur of the moment, my wife and I decided to go [...]
Let your unconscious mind work it out
A study showed that ‘Sleeping on complex decisions’ was the way to go and gives pointers on what is required for the sub-conscious mind to work things out for you. more…https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn8732-sleeping-on-it-best-for-complex-decisions/
Look after yourself
In a study of 1000 people over a period of 40+ years, ‘The Dunedin Project’ ( http://dunedinstudy.otago.ac.nz/news-and-events/article/41 ) revealed staggering variances between a person’s chronological age and their biological age i.e. how well the body and mind of people had aged. Notwithstanding variations in [...]
Engage and learn
Every time you engage in something you learn from it. (Jack Canfield).
